Jun 15, 2017
This is the fourth in the "Be The Good, See the Good" Series.
We will dive in to how the uniqueness in each of us strengthens all of us, and learn how we can work in our strengths and recognize that in others.
*Podcast music by the awesome Renee & Jeremy who cover "Put a Little Love In Your Heart" by Jackie DeShannon. Props to both of them for this beautiful rendition that epitomizes what I want for families! You can get your copy here (aff link)
Ashley featured on the Entrepreneur On Fire Podcast: https://www.eofire.com/podcast/ashleylogsdon/
Check out www.HollyScherer.com - she says “I created this community to help you REDISCOVER YOUR DREAMS and BUILD THE FOUNDATION to make them a reality. In 2011, my husband and I STOPPED WAITING FOR “SOMEDAY” and began building a FOUNDATION TO FREEDOM - we want to help you do the same.” How cool is that?
“When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But when you LISTEN, you may learn something new.” -Dalhai Llama
Greatest fear for a high I is rejection. Solitude, however, does not mean pure isolation. It’s a time to connect with yourself and find peace in the quiet. The more we can establish that being alone is not a negative thing, the more a high I will have confidence in that space.
“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” Jim Rohn
To show love/affirmation for a high S or I, it goes back to the feeling and relationship. For a D or C, boil it down to the task and their accomplishment.
The brain physiology and DISC correlation relates back to Katherine Benziger’s work - a great summary of it all is here: http://www.businessballs.com/benzigerpersonalityassessment.htm D & I = Frontal L/R, S & C = Basal L/R
It takes 3 seconds for a high D and I to process things, it takes 7 seconds for an S or C.
I know you want to see a picture of Ellie’s “Sharpie Incident” - read the blog post here: http://www.mamasaysnamaste.com/high-i-style/
Characteristics of a High I Personality Style:
What Motivates Them:
What upsets them:
Parenting Tips to Help Your Child (or you) Grow:
Encouraging Phrases for a high I:
Parent Tips
• Help your I child become
more organized by teaching him how to effectively use charts or a
chore list
• Help your I child to
understand when to say no to friends and when it is
important to be an individual. This is an important lesson for all
styles, but requires a special emphasis for I children due
to their natural need to be a part of a group.
• When your I child needs
to do a task (like homework), make sure you set aside time
beforehand for them to have some fun and get their wiggles
out.
• If an I child
misbehaves, the cold shoulder is just...cold. This feels like
complete rejection to them. Instead, tell them what they did wrong,
why it was wrong, and what the consequence will be. Alone time can
be a teaching tool that isn’t just shunning them - but helping them
to sit with their thoughts without the distractions of friends, and
really comprehend what they did. Always allow them to right their
wrongs, so they feel fully back in good graces, and reassure them
that you love them and know they will make a better choice next
time!
BONUS Material:
Want to see a high I yogi in action? I love “Yoga with Adrienne” and she is a great example of a fun-loving high I. Check out this beginner yoga video for back pain - and notice how her personality shines through: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=phuS5VLQy8c